Based on feedback from respondents, the topic reflects a broader social conversation in Nigeria about gender roles, financial independence, and expectations in relationships.

Opinions are divided among Nigerians on when is the right time for women to request financial help from men in relationships.

This has become necessary following the growing trend of women complaining about men not willing to part with money.

Many Nigerian men have reported being milked while being promised love but in the end, they are left dejected.

This led us to ask the question, When is the appropriate time to ask a man for money in a relationship.

The views of those who spoke exclusively to CBI News vary. Some called for patience, mutual respect others called for self-reliance.

While trader Favour Isaac, says asking men should depend on timing, Stephen Bolaji, an unemployed graduate, tells women not to depend on men financially.

“You should give the man time to know who he really is before asking him for something,” she said. “Sometimes, if you ask too early, it may cause problems," Favour Isaac a

Trader said.

Stephen Bolaji, an unemployed graduate, said women should not depend on men financially. “You should have your own money,”.

He added “When a man sees you’re in need, he can assist willingly. But it shouldn’t be a constant demand".

Tolu Taiwo, a trader said both genders should share responsibility. “It’s not only women; men too. If I meet a lady today and she asks for money, I can’t give because I worked for it,” she said.

Mayowa Olaleye, a teacher advised women to add value to themselves before expecting support.

"A woman should be of purpose,” she said. “Let help come from the man’s willingness, not because you met last week and are already asking for money.” Olaleye concluded.