Melka Monette Talks Openly About Trauma, Abuse and Healing in Nigeria (Video)
Last update: May 29, 2026
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Let’s be real — so many people are fighting battles behind closed doors. But what happens when we finally start talking about them out loud?
In a world where trauma, abuse and emotional struggles still get swept under the carpet, having honest conversations about healing has never been more urgent. That was the heart of the matter when Melka Monette — wife of the Canadian Deputy High Commissioner in Lagos, Carlos Rojas-Arbulu — stopped by CBI News for a chat that hit closer to home than most headlines do.
As reported by cbinews.tv, the renowned sexologist, psychotherapist and entrepreneur sat down for an exclusive on CBI CHATROOM with Adebola Adedugba, and she didn’t hold back.
Melka spoke frankly about sexual, physical and emotional abuse — issues that quietly chip away at individuals, families and whole communities worldwide. Too often, she said, victims stay silent. Why? Fear. Stigma. And simply not having the right support around them. That’s exactly why we need to talk about mental health and trauma more than ever.
Her message was clear: survivors need safer spaces, greater awareness and a lot more compassion. And if you’re struggling, don’t sit in shame — speak up and seek help.
But it wasn’t all heavy. Melka also took time to big up Nigeria and its people. She’s clearly fallen for the country — its warmth, resilience, creativity and that unmistakable Nigerian energy. She gave a special shout-out to young Nigerians too, praising their determination and innovative spirit.
In the end, her visit to cbinews.tv was a reminder of something powerful: difficult truths and hope can sit in the same room. Healing, growth and opportunity show up when we’re willing to listen, learn and actually do something to create change.
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